Arij Fatyma Instagram – People are asking me how my pregnancy had been. 5 months of sickness and then being stuck inside the house for the remaining 4 with no help trying to manage everything on my own cause of the virus. It was depressing. Trying to keep my sanity by being busy and posting online and then getting more depressed reading about how FAT I am?
Delivering at a hospital full of Corona patients – where every few hours having to hear CODE BLUE ( Code blue indicates a medical emergency such as cardiac or respiratory arrest). Also getting tested for covid 19 while in labor and delivering with a mask on with only a doctor and one nurse wearing protective gear. Imagine getting low on oxygen and switching between oxygen and a mask continuously.
Now the funny thing is, I use a smart sock and a camera to keep a check on the baby while cleaning, cooking and doing other chores – since some of us dont have the opportunity to go to Maika for 41 days or get other people to help or have house help- but still people have the audaticy to message me about how terrible of a mother I am for doing so cause I’m not SLEEPING with the baby? I’m suppose to sleep all day with the baby and cook no food and not clean and not do anything else? People are saying my child will be detached in the future since he doesnt sleep on the same bed? For those who lack knowledge and need to be educated about the risks of babies sleeping with you on the bed- dont ridicule the person who’s doing the right thing atleast. I have a DOG and I need to be MORE careful.
So honestly, block me and unfollow me if you have anything nasty to say. I’m done for now with negativity and negative people.
#rant | Posted on 06/Jun/2020 15:51:06
