Sameera Reddy Instagram – How do you know you want a second child?I get asked this a lot. I’d like moms to share their experiences in the comments below. I find it hard to answer this because I believe everyone has their own experience and situation that can make this decision a very personal one. I always knew I wanted two kids. Im working hard on their relationship in their formative years hoping they have a solid friendship and bond for life .The best way to gauge if I was ready was to just ask myself if I had the courage to do this all over again, the pregnancy ,sleepless nights ,weight gain, etc. I did suffer PPD the first time round but I was better equipped after Nyra. I was happy to redo it all over again . In fact I felt I didn’t enjoy the whole process the last last time because i was totally unprepared and too caught up with my emotions which Is why maybe today I talk about it often hoping women will enjoy the process and not get pulled down by it . What about the love? It naturally just splits between them and it’s a balancing act with many moments of meltdowns on all sides but we get through it. I also really feel it takes a lot more work on time with your partner and for yourself. It’s easy to get lost but we all find our way. I know many families that are happy with just one or even no kids. What ever you choose it’s awesome either way. I would say don’t get pressurised by anyone because it’s your decision. Your take on your life and how you choose to see it is what makes the journey a unique one. Nothing is easy but nothing is difficult either 🌟 #motherhood #momlife #messymama #letsgetreal