Anveshi Jain Instagram – Handle your partner how you’d handle a kid . Your own kid . Because that’s how vulnerable one becomes when they go through something . It not only money or family issues that can bog him down . Sometimes even childlike desires , longing for Touch, affection and kind words , not feeling seen can also take a toll on you or your lover. Love is not proved in bed or in good times . I realised how much I loved a person when they were least loveable, cranky and complaining. Against my usual impulsive behaviour of reacting , I heard them. You just Listen . Don’t say a word . Just pay attention , that’s half of the healing right there. You cannot validate your insecurities , jealousy, anger and possessiveness by calling it love . Someone is trusting you with their life when they could have had anyone else or being on their own. Let’s try and not ever make them feel miserable.you might be giving him a lifelong trauma.If you are finding it hard to understand your partner , may be you need to understand yourself first . New year shouldn’t be only about goals , money and fame .. it has to be the changes i need within , to be a better lover and make our loved ones feel more loved and cared for. After all Love is all we need ! Love him 💝 #goodmorning #thoughts #sharingwithyou