Poornitha Instagram – QUITE MISERABLE DEAR When someone asks you ‘How are you?’ We almost immediately say ‘I am fine thank you’ It’s a reflex action statement, if that makes sense … we have seen our parents and friends say it when asked… I have seen my parents have this major fight sequence at home where I am covering my head and ears and if and when the door bell rings or the phone rings and the person on the otherside asks my parents how they were doing.. they would smile and say”we are fine..thank you”… and I would be like whatttttt???? Really???? We are supposed to say we are ok at all times… And Then few years back I met this beautiful woman .. she was wearing a very elegant chiffon saree and a pearl necklace with the grace of a dancer…I was instantly in awe of her.. I was introduced to her and I asked her the usual icebreaker question ‘how are you ?’ and she replied “quite miserable dear” with a smile on her lips but sadness in her eyes..She was so real and honest .. i could feel that she being transparent made the whole environment and people around her drop their guard too.. so positive… and from that day forward i have been freaking honest about how I feel and when people asks how I am? I would be honest with my current feeling and that was liberating … I dint have to pretend anymore.. I am this real person with good days and bad… you guys should try this… just be yourself …. as I always say you are important …😘😘😘 #selflove #kalyaniunfiltered #vsco #vscocam #mentalhealthawarenesscampaign2019