Poornitha Instagram – Happy New Year!! How many of you believe that it’s so nice to start new things every new year? How many of you believe in resolutions or goals? I personally love reflecting on the previous year and setting personal goals every year :) it’s like a new chapter, a new start! This New year, What new changes are you guys going to bring into your lives? If you ask me the one most important thing I want to learn, inculcate and practically put into action, is Self Love. Why don’t we ever cut ourselves some slack and give ourselves a pat on the back? Why are we our own biggest critics? Don’t we have enough people around us to do that? Think about the decisions that make up our life. Only we will truly know why we did something why we act a certain way. Yet, why do we crave for other people’s approval? for their validation? And why do we compare ourselves to others? Wishing we had their lives.. Wishing we did those things.. All from a version of their life that we see. In the process of this, we lose ourselves, our individuality. What makes us different.. These are things that I think about quite often. I’m a people pleaser. I’m not saying this to make myself sound great but I almost always put other people’s needs in front of mine…and then finally end up getting upset. I was, or actually I may still be that person.. trying to do the ‘right’ thing, pleasing everyone, doing what people expect me to do, being hard on myself for everything.. Life itself is not easy so let’s just live and let live and mainly hug ourselves and say, “You are doing great!” and start truly concentrating on genuinely being happy Sending all of you lots of love this new year and wishing all you all the happiness.. Make you your biggest priority :) love yourself! Celebrate you!#kalyaniunfiltered #selflove #vsco #vscocam Birmingham, United Kingdom