Chinmayi Instagram – I have had a ton of men like @venky_golakoti asking if I did not give any dowry to Rahul Ravindran, my husband. It looks like it is beyond these people’s imagination that normal, well adjusted, SECURE people don’t take dowry. Neither do they behave like entitled pricks expecting the girl’s family to give ridiculous gifts like ‘aadapaduchu katnam’ for non existent sisters in law, or expect the girls’ family to spend it all on the wedding. For the last time – we both spent on our own wedding with our own income. And split the costs. That’s what adults do all over the world except in mana maha samajam. If you are an adult and are earning – spend your own money for your wedding. Your parents deserve to have their own savings for themselves.