Chinmayi Instagram – Ilaa mana desham lo enno biddalu unnaru. Ituvanti DMs eppudu vastuntaayi. Eppatininchi womens rights gurinchi nen maataddam modalu pettaeno – appatninchi mana telugu samajam ninchi ilaanti ‘namoonas’ ekkuva. Roju oka 4-5 DM tagulutaayi. Naake ilaa ante, actresses ki elaa untundho meeru imagine chesko vaccunu. Point is – ilaanti messages meeku ganaka vaste – dont bother about it. If you’re a girl and you got something like this on DMs – don’t worry, don’t take it personally. The person on the other side of the screen has an illness. Don’t cry over it. This sort of verbal aggression is another way women and non-binary people are silenced on social media. Men too, no doubt. I see how they speak during fan wars. Literally the entire gutter in the minds of people flows on social media. Ilaanti enno intensity boiis messages choostunta. Aalochinchadam mottham burra tho kaadhu, genitals tho maatrame. Ilaa sex abuse chestene veellaki normal. Calling a woman a slut, L**ja and other words in regional languages is normalized. But this is the point – if you’re a girl – you got something like this – remember it has nothing to do with you and has everything to do with them. As for me – I have gotten so used to this that I genuinely wish the mentally ill people who send such messages and the families that raised them like this – healing.