Shenaz Treasurywala Instagram – To have kids or not? What’s your choice?
I love kids but I don’t want kids of my own. When I say this I get a lot of shocked looks. You’re selfish Shenaz. You want to just live for yourself. You don’t want responsibility!
Yes, thats true. Having kids is a whole lot of responsibility that I am not ready for. I love my life!!!
Also as much as I love kids, I like giving them back to their parents and coming home to peace and silence!
But the main reason is – I do not want to bring kids into an already over populated world and burden the planet even more than it already is.
Yes, I do understand that humans are biologically wired to reproduce. And it made sense to grow the population and your family in the past. But now, with the future looking scary and the degradation of the planet, the future for children and grandchildren, is not looking bright. Fishless oceans, pandemics etc.
I am Selfish?
Having kids is vanity right? This child is a mini version of yourself – and how can you not love a mini you- of course you love that child that looks like you and talks like you :))
So today in 2021- is it selfish to have a kid or not have a kid?? π
I think adoption is the least selfish – the people that adopt they are the selfless ones! They are the stars of humanity π
Unfortunately in india it’s so hard to adopt.. imagine the irony in that!!!
Yes I sometimes think I would make an amazing parent – my child would be super cool π I would put that kid in a sling and take her around the world etc etc but no, I don’t want kids.
Thats my decision π
What about you???
#adoption #opinion #options #decisions | Posted on 02/Dec/2021 21:37:06