Debra Winger Instagram – Today is the anniversary of my mama’s death day. Ruth Felder Winger. She is so happy here. My father seems happy behind her. My mother worked from the first day I remember. I never knew there was a choice until later. She lived a lot of things without questioning them. Both her strength and a bit of what is lacking in our lives. This year I see both as co-existing – the living and the questioning. We pass our death day each year, we just don’t know it – I let it be my life’s muse today.