Matt McGorry Instagram – I remember when I first started having really intentional conversations with partners about s3x and intimacy. It felt scary & challenging as I was worried about coming off as “too much,” insecure, or not “playing it cool.” But these conversations are essential, especially with new lovers, for everyone’s needs to get met and to build trust and safety. Repost @che.che.luna ・・・ “here’s some of my favorite questions to ask + receive when getting down and dirty with folks 💦🔥😈👅🥵💞⛓️ which of these do you want to try out? what would you add? slide 1 text: communication templates for casual (but intentional) s3x slide 2 text: are there any particular types of s3xual play and/or kinks you’re looking to indulge in? slide 3 text: What turns you on? slide 4 text: how do you like to feel during s3x? slide 5 text: what are your hard limits and hard necessities? slide 6 text: what is your STI status and when were you last tested? slide 7 text: what are your boundaries + needs around using barriers? slide 8 text: any affirming words, names and/or honorifics you’d like to me to use for you? slide 9 text: are you open to an initial date that entails us meeting up somewhere public to talk and get clear together on our kinky/sexual play container? and then (if we feel up for it) getting down and dirty in my car? 💦 slide 10 text: what are your after-care needs?”