Michelle Obama Instagram – In my book, #TheLightWeCarry, I share the story of a young Stacey Abrams and her experience almost being denied an opportunity she worked so hard to earn. Now many of you know her as a voting rights activist, politician, and author. But back in 1991, Stacey was the valedictorian of her high school class and was invited to join other valedictorians from around Georgia for an afternoon reception at the governor’s mansion in Atlanta to celebrate their success as students. When she arrived with her parents, Abrams says she walked partway up the driveway and was stopped by a security guard, who took one look at them and said, “This is a private event. You don’t belong here.” The message was familiar: I don’t see you as being entitled to what you have. Thankfully, Stacey Abrams’ parents would have none of that nonsense. Her mother, she recalls, gripped her arm to stop her from turning and running back to the bus. Her father started arguing with the guard. They did eventually make it into the reception—after the man found Stacey’s name at the very top of the alphabetized guest list. I share this story as a reminder for us to look at the way our words and actions impact others. Lucky for us, Stacey continued to persist in the years that followed—breaking barriers, opening doors for others along the way, and inspiring many who hope to follow in her footsteps. We’re so lucky you never gave up, Stacey! #WomensHistoryMonth Photo Credit: Kevin Lowery