Roxane Gay Instagram – Three years ago today, @debbiemillman and I eloped. It was an amazing day but in truth, every day with Debbie is amazing in one way or another. She has an irrepressible sense of adventure, a brilliant mind, a beautiful smile, and a loving heart. She loves to sing and dance and wear hats. She has a canonical knowledge of hip hop which still amazes me. She is fiercely loyal, honest, and mega hot. She loves animals and they love her back. I could go on but I won’t! Happy anniversary, @debbiemillman.