Spencer Paysinger Instagram – I remember asking my Dad how old he was when I was little and he replied “35.” The number felt unserious. An inside joke. Inconceivable. Like he was fucking with me. But 35 feels taller. Softer. Grand. Open. Steady. Lean. Cunning. Emotional. Grey but Black as ever. Cheers to you 35, but count your fuckin’ days cuz the joke’s on me!