Esther Perel Instagram – “Ticks all the boxes”
“Perfect on paper”
“That’s a dealbreaker”
“They’re a ten but…”
“Not a good fit”
If you haven’t said one of these phrases yourself, you’ve probably heard one from a friend. Over dinner or drinks, you’ve likely dissected a recent first date or new relationship, contemplating whether this one will move “to the next level.” These checklists ooze with pragmatism. But don’t you want a little poetry? This logical approach leaves little room for eros, and our obsession with qualifications can rob us of the inexplicable and unexpected pleasure that comes with meeting a new person.
At SXSW this year, we explored the trappings of modern-day dating and The Other AI: Artificial Intimacy. Follow the link in my bio for the full conversation. | Posted on 20/Jul/2023 02:40:23



