Latonya Williams Instagram – But HOW can we heal?👇🏾 When I found myself going through a devastating break up, I got some LIFE-ALTERING advice. It was to ask myself – how can I take responsibility, without blaming him, and without blaming myself? 🫠 It seemed impossible at first, while I was still so hurt. But taking responsibility in the end, was the only way to solve my anger. The only way for me to assess the situation objectively, to soften and actually change. Fast-forward one year and I’m happily married to an amazing man. 👰🏾‍♀️❤️🤵🏾‍♂️ Men and Women, we are hurting. We’re lonelier than ever, the divorce rates have never been higher; and that’s for those of us who even make it down the aisle. So how can we take responsibility? There are systems and ideologies in place that are working against us. Systems that incentivize single-family homes. Ideologies that’ll cause wars in our minds and condition us away from our very natures. But these only work if we let them. 🙅🏾‍♀️ 🤔It’s time we start to question the societal norms in an increasingly abnormal society. **If you want to know more about the tools that I used to face the pain, take responsibility, and transform my life – DM me the word TRANSFORM #relationshipadvice #breakuphealing #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #mentalhealth #mindreprogramming #selflovejourney #empowerher #heartbreakrecovery #healingjourney #femininepower #mindsetshift #selfcaresunday #emotionalwellness #generationaltraumahealing #innerstrength #breakthematrix #reprogramyourmind #awakenyourpotential #unplugfromthematrix #mindsetrevolution #shiftyourperspective #freeyourmind