Matthew Hussey Instagram – Have you ever been tempted to follow dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent? The problem with this type of game-playing is that any standard we try to uphold without the proper foundations is not a standard, it’s a tactic—and a tactic (like “playing hard to get”) lacks substance and truth, which often leads to it crumbling at the first sign of resistance . . . In today’s video, I want to share with you the transformation that happens in our dating lives when we develop an organic sense of value for ourselves that tells someone they must invest PROPERLY in order to truly connect . . . (FULL video on YouTube) P.S. If this video speaks to you and you want to learn how to confidently communicate YOUR standards, I’ve created a space where you can dive deep into this transformative work through my Live Retreat program. Embarking on this journey toward emotional congruence with our standards doesn’t just alter our actions; it revolutionizes our entire approach to relationships. The result is that you’ll naturally gravitate toward healthier dynamics, and your dating life will undergo a profound shift. Just head to MHRetreat.com to learn more about joining us in Florida for 6 days of coaching immersion this September.