Matthew Hussey Instagram – Have you ever found yourself approaching a situation where you feel hurt, with your weapons first? Next time you find yourself in an emotionally complex situation with your partner, take a moment an evaluate. Am I approaching them with anger first, or am I communicating what I need, and how I feel in a way that they can be on my team, rather than my enemy? If you’ve experienced this before, tell me how you’ve dealt with this in the past in the comments.