Jamie Otis Instagram – 9 years ago today we renewed our wedding vows.👰‍♀️❤️🤵🏼‍♂️ This video is from right after we said “I do” to each other again.😍 But this time (& for the first time in our marriage) we said “I do” with full commitment!🥰 We chose each other. At our Married At First Sight wedding we didn’t get to choose each other. We didn’t even know each other’s names.🤪😅 There’s something about renewing your vows and recommitting to each other. It’s so meaningful & it really pulls you back in as a couple.🙏🏻❤️ We’ll be celebrating TEN YEARS MARRIED in March.👏🏻 🥳 To be very honest, our marriage was *rocky* the first few years… even at our 9 year anniversary there were things my husband had still been keeping secret from me.😩 I guess it’s a given that your spouse will have secrets when you marry as complete strangers. There was no dating at all. So after you’re married, when is the right time to spill all your secrets?? I don’t know.🤷‍♀️ One thing I do know is that I’m not the same woman my husband married nearly 10 years ago and he’s not the same man. We are planning our 10 year vow renewal because, in a lot of ways, it will be like us getting to have a fresh start with each other. I guess normal people would get through all those hard times while dating and then choose to get married & commit their lives to each other after. We did it completely backwards.🤪😅 If I could go back and do any of this over, I wouldn’t. This is our love story & even though it’s wildly different than most — it’s ours.🫶🏻 If you’re still reading my long azz caption (I love you!!😘) im kinda curious … Would you marry a complete stranger if a few experts said you are the “perfect match”??? …You already know my answer!😜