Jamie Otis Instagram – SO thankful to have a hubby who is 100% on the same page as me when it comes to growing our fam. I know infertility can destroy relationships, but @Doughehner has been by my side through all of the emotions, disappointment, & lifestyle changes.🙏🏻❤️ We joke and make light of this, but man! I wish our healthcare system offered more support for women trying to conceive. Our insurance won’t cover acupuncture or fertility. It’s EXPENSIVE! We are putting our home renovation on hold until we get pregnant bc the money we saved to Reno we may end up needing to use to grow our family. Someone recently said to me to stop spending so much time trying to make a baby and focus on making my new house more of a home. We don’t have furniture in one area and a lot of the decor is super out-dated. All I have to say to that is that my house is just as much HOME as any house we’ve ever lived in…it has nothing to do with the way it looks. Doug and my relationship is stronger than ever (Thank God!) Our kiddos running around and riding their little ponies throughout our house makes it more of a HOME than any fancy decor ever could. So yeah, I’m ok with leaving 1/4 of the house empty. I’m ok with not renovating it to meet all my home decor goals. 
For us, bringing a baby into our home would make it more “homier” than any new furniture or updating ever could. I have FAITH that God’s will is being done in our lives. It will all happen in his perfect timing. And I’ve gotta tell ya, I am also so grateful for each of YOU who continue to send us positive vibes! 🙌 Each recommendation, each message of support, each comment does not go unnoticed. I believe that a community can carry you through the hardest of times, and I certainly have the best community with YOU! You have stuck with me with each roller coaster of emotions throughout so many different journeys I’ve been on. Thank YOU! 🥰❤️🥰 As always, if you’re on this same journey, struggling with infertility or secondary infertility, know you’re not alone. It’s such a hard journey filled with so many emotions…sometimes it feels super isolating but we are in this together gilfran. 2024 is our year, God willing!