Matthew Hussey Instagram – When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear. In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards. Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!