Ashley Judd Instagram – I live and love in a politically mixed family, and believe it or not, we have found our way to peace, dignity, respect, and even humor. (Gone are the verbally, ahem, “wild” suppers of my college years when everyone felt hurt and misunderstood.) I have learned to hold complexity and nuance, let go of either/or, ask myself if I want to be right or loved, and be more curious rather than quoting facts all the time. It is damn hard work and the road can be long. It does *not* mean tolerating unacceptable behavior. Its reward is a sense of integrity and peace with others, crucially, this: Learning to stand for something without standing against my fellows. I would love to hear what you are trying, what has and has not worked, and your hopes for reducing conflict and holding more openness. #KitchenTableDiplomacy