Dani Dyer Instagram – AD Sorry reposting this from yesterday as instagram deleted it and then my account wasn’t working properly! So anyone that responded thankyou🥺❤️
I am so excited for our family to be growing.. I feel so lucky and blessed to be having 2 more babies.. but I just feel like I have so many worries going around in my head that I need to just get them all out. I remember one of my friends having a second baby and telling me about the second baby guilt she had and I never understood it until I fell pregnant again! Honestly the mum guilt never ends I don’t think😂
I have been booked in to have a planned c-section. Because I had an emergency c-section before they felt the safer way would be for the twins to be delivered by c-section again. Especially because they are identical twins, it’s always a bit more risky. I have always wanted a vaginal birth, but I knew I had to listen to my consultant.
As soon as I found out I should have a c-section, I instantly felt so guilty and worried about the recovery. 😔 I still want to be able to pick Santi up and run around and do the activities I usually do but because Santi is still only little himself, I can’t really explain why mummy can’t do her usual activities. So much is changing but I still want him to think I can be the best mummy possible. ❤️
With this guilt and worry hanging over my head I went on the @peanut app to see how other mums have dealt with it. I just wanted to chat to someone who felt the same. The mums on @peanut reassured me that it’s totally natural to feel this way and that Santi will understand more than I think and learn so quickly that soon we’ll settle as a family. 🥰
If you have any more advice about second pregnancies, please share in the comments! if you’re a new mum, pregnant, or trying for a baby, I would defo encourage you to join @peanut! It’s a safe space for us to meet, chat and have open and honest conversations about all things motherhood. The mum guilt never stops, but knowing you’re not alone and hearing from other mums is so important. #peanutapp | Posted on 22/Mar/2023 23:29:52
