Kelsey Edwards Instagram – lately i’ve been thinking a lot about the fact that, somewhere along the way, we decided that everything has to be hard.
having a career in the arts is hard, relationships are hard, going to school is hard, losing weight is hard, traveling is hard, making money is hard, starting a business is hard, going to school is hard, we have to grind & work hard to make our dreams come true and on and on..
don’t get me wrong. i’m not perfect & am currently working through a “why is this so hard?” moment myself haha, but a couple years ago i learned that the reality we experience is just the result of the reality we create believe in.
so if i condition myself to believe that everything in my life has to be hard & difficult to achieve, then it will be.
on the flip side, what happens if you decide that everything is easy? and not just saying it in your head, but like really, truly believing it in your core?
then it becomes easier 🤷🏼♀️ the moment i decided it was easy for me to attract opportunities & the things on my vision board is the moment everything got easier lol.
that’s when i started making a lot more money by doing very little work & getting phone calls & bookings and opportunities handed to me straight off my vision board.
i know this is easier said than done 😇 it takes intentional work to reprogram our mindset around this stuff & get rid of the subconscious limiting beliefs that stop you from really believing you deserve it all.
and even when you “level up” in your beliefs, you’ll likely run into new limiting beliefs at the new level (me currently).
you also have to condition yourself to feel safe having success, because if your nervous system freaks out when good things happen to you, you’ll subconsciously sabotage it because you don’t feel worthy of it.
lately when i’ve been feeling stressed or anxious about something, i’ll pause and say to myself “wow, why is ____ such an easy experience for me?” about it. conditioning myself like this is one of the ways i’ve been able to transform negative beliefs into more positive ones.
what beliefs do you have about yourself or the world that you’d like to change? would genuinely love to know ⬇️🫶🏼 | Posted on 20/May/2024 10:15:52
