Deepak Chopra

Deepak Chopra Instagram – #AskDeepak

“I am filled with constant fear and anxiety and have been for quite some time now. 
I attribute it to my unstable job situation. 
I have had a number of different jobs over the past year and can’t seem to settle into one. 

How do I manage the constant fear and anxiety and settle myself so that I can get deep, restorative sleep?”

My response:

You can’t instantly make your job secure, but you can change the way you look at your job, and that can change your anxiety. 
Right now you are looking to your job situation to give you a sense of stability and calm. 

But even if you were certain that you could keep your present job for the rest of your life, you could be every bit as anxious as you are now about countless other uncertain factors in your life. 

The point is that you need to make friends with change and uncertainty. It is an illusion to think we can be calm by controlling life. 
Recognizing that the contentment of our true self is unchanged by the constantly changing outer events is what I sometimes call the wisdom of uncertainty. 

If you start to see your life from the point of view of your true self, instead of your separate, changing self trying to find security in an ever-changing job scene. 
When you find your sense of security inside you, then you can let your job be what it is, while you open yourself to new possibilities.

Love,
Deepak | Posted on 31/Jul/2024 02:57:23

Deepak Chopra Instagram – #AskDeepak

“I am now in my 20s with no car, no conventional job, no cell phone, and quite frankly, no desire to live by the standards set by society. 

Most people would claim this as having a twisted world perspective, but I feel in my heart that it’s right for me to live without these things. 

It’s not out of a place of fear, because that is what I originally thought, but after deep introspection, I just don’t see a need or real desire for these things (for the most part), and I wonder about your perspective on this. 

Is this ok? 

Is it wrong for me to so deeply wish to set the standards for my own life? 

Everyone around me thinks it is, and truth be told it does weigh on me. 

My greatest desire is to help and push humanity forward, but I just feel that I cannot do this while being subject to society’s conditioning. 

What should I do?”

My response:

It’s not only ‘okay’ to live life on your own terms, that is what becoming a fully formed adult requires. 

Authenticity is also the surest way for one person to make a real difference in improving the world. 

This means you are in touch with your core self and finding value and direction from within, instead of from the values and messaging of the media, advertising, and social expectations. 

Simply continuing to listen and to live according to your inner guidance is all you need to do to be an agent of positive change for humanity.

Love,
Deepak

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