Dondré Whitfield Instagram – There is an opinion that there are far too many men who are more feminine than ever. Along with many women who are more masculine than ever. I can’t speak to the woman issue because that’s for our sisters to work out in themselves. But I will speak to this notion about men being more feminine than ever before.
These kinds affirmations and practices may indeed fall under the category of being a feminine practice as opposed to a masculine practice. But let me further state, and this is the most important part, that when a man goes through these kinds of things to resuscitate and restore himself-and even to build his son into a more whole man, its really speaking to the humanity of that man. And if you are a man who practices this and you encounter a woman who does not, or you encounter a woman who is more comfortable being in her masculine state of being, then they absolutely will call you a feminine man. And not realize that you are simply a man trying to be more human than anything else.
Being more human doesn’t mean that I won’t still kick your behind if you hurt or harm me or my loved ones. Being more human doesn’t mean that I still can’t bench press 225 lbs. And it doesn’t mean that I won’t still be a lion in the bed room. It just means that I don’t allow those things to define who I am as a man!!!!!!
And therein lies one of the biggest issues in our community. We can’t even recognize that all of us have been denied the ability to get back in touch with our humanity!!!!! | Posted on 20/Jun/2024 22:48:46
