What she said there after makes me ask; why the heck are you following me sis?
Being lusted over is not a flex. I was an overweight kid growing up until I was 16. No one ever broke their necks for me. No one ever batted an eye. I was fat, I wore glasses & I had braces; instead I was bullied and made to feel ugly. It wasn’t until my family pediatrician scared me skinny. He told me I would live a poor quality of life if I continued and that I would have serious medical issues. I’ll be 40 in September so you can imagine what it was like for a 16 y/o at the time with no way to research and learn healthy ways to lose weight or be a part of a community that understood me. I felt alone so what did my young mind do? I starved. My young mind associated food with weight gain so my logic assured me not eating ; I’d lose weight and so I did. And I became anorexic; then later bulimic. It’s odd the attention I got when I lost weight; boys approached me that never did before ; I didn’t like it then and I don’t like it now. Even my young mind thought it was messed up that all they cared was looks when there’s so much more to me. I still feel the same now. Only difference is I’ve learned that food is a good thing, I workout & I balance a healthy lifestyle. #relatable #realtalk #keepingitreal
Call me TOXICA bc it turns out many people dont have common sense 😳 ayi dios mio 🙄😠😤 #relatable
Once you get real good at saying, “that’s just not gonna work for me” – you take so much of your power back. Start practicing saying this and watch who truly respects and values you. 🫂✨ #settingboundaries #selflove #selfcare #selfworth #mindset
They see a “hot chick” and automatically dehumanize me and generalize me into a category that’s way off. I’m single bc it’s a choice and I think it’s a smart one bc I’m healing , I’m learning and im applying what I’ve learned not just on potential romantic scenarios, but also in friendships and family. It’s important who we surround ourselves with and who we allow into our lives. That’s why I’m taking my time. I think it’s important to normalize celebrating a persons choice to live a healthy love of self then to settle with someone who hurts them. ESPECIALLY for women & women my age. It’s okay if you 40 and loving your best life with peace. Enjoy that time. Bc one thing I can tell you , you never get time back twice. 🫂✨🤍 okay I’m off to 😴 gooooodnight. #realtalk #relatable #selflove #healingjourney #dontsettle #thisis40
Let me guess ? I should walk in a trash bag for the rest of my life 🙄 The women in the comments understood and could relate to my last post 🫂 I see you & I feel you! But the boys!?! 🤯 I don’t know why ya’ll entered the conversation when they could never understand the point! I just wanna know , why ya’ll so mad??? YES ! WOMEN DONT LIKE TO BE LUSTED!!! Jumping to conclusions, never did I say women don’t like compliments or looked at. I said LUSTED. There’s a difference btwn finding a woman attractive and lusting over her. Attraction: finding her cute, pretty, beautiful & you usually LEAD with respect. While Lusting over a woman, you sexualize her & often always guys will be disrespectful, all bc they feel it’s justified bc of “how she looks.” So many of you thought that bc I was wearing a tank dress in 💯 degree weather justified me getting cat called at the pet store while I was sick. SMH I won’t apologize for working out and being in shape. I won’t apologies for the curves I hated for most of my life that lead me into eating disorders. I won’t apologize for taking care of myself. Guys should be held accountable for their ill behavior. It’s not justifiable nor excusable. Shame on you #relatable #realtalk #keepingitreal
No darling, they didn’t LEAVE you. They LOST you. Anyone who walked out of your life it’s their loss not yours. Never forget your worth 🫂✨ In the words of @mr_dropndimes in one of our convos he checked me and you know what ? He’s absolutely correct. #relatable #dating #breakup #single
TQM ECUADOR 🇪🇨 LOVE YOU #copaamerica #ecuador #pk
Would you date a man with this ride??? 😂 🎥: @madeintosh • #funnyvideos #comedyreels #comedyvideo #icecream #icecreamlover #icecreamvideos #icecreamlove #dating #datinggoals #couplegoals #datinglife
Dear young me, I know you’re feeling overwhelmed and lost right now, but I want you to hold on. The pain you’re experiencing is real, and it feels like it’s never going to end, truth is life is hard but it’s also beautiful. You are so much stronger than you realize, and there is so much beauty and joy waiting for you in the future. The world needs your light, your kindness, and your unique perspective. It needs your voice. The struggles you’re facing will shape you into a compassionate and resilient person. There will be moments of laughter, love, and achievement that you can’t even imagine yet. You’ll meet people who will cherish you for who you are, and you’ll find passions that make your heart sing. Please give yourself the chance to experience all of that. You’re worthy of happiness, and you deserve to see the amazing person you will become. Hold on, keep fighting, and remember that it’s okay to ask for help. You’re not alone, and you never will be. I believe in you, and I love you more than words can express. With all my heart, Your future self Jessenia 💌 Video @b_1_craig #dearme #dearyoungerme #loveyou
Living my : Eat. Love. Pray 🤲🏼 moment ✈️🚗 📍 Galápagos, Ecuador 🇪🇨 #breakup #single #selflove #selfrespect #selfworth
I’m I wrong?? …. Meanwhile, in Ecuador during the last day of las fiestas in Alausi. #dating #real #single #men #ecuador #chimborazo #ecuador #alausi
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No longer dimming my light for others who can’t appreciate it ✨💫💥
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Gratitude can always be found even in things that weren’t “good” ✨
@davidarchie 👏👏👏 love this 🌈🫂✨ Thankfully my God, he loves all his children , including my friends in the LGBTQ community. And anyone who uses religion to preach hate or pass judgment as if they were God themselves; sit down 🪑 #loveislove #lgbtqally #ally #proudally
@davidarchie 👏👏👏 love this 🌈🫂✨ Thankfully my God, he loves all his children , including my friends in the LGBTQ community. And anyone who uses religion to preach hate or pass judgment as if they were God themselves; sit down 🪑 #loveislove #lgbtqally #ally #proudally
@davidarchie 👏👏👏 love this 🌈🫂✨ Thankfully my God, he loves all his children , including my friends in the LGBTQ community. And anyone who uses religion to preach hate or pass judgment as if they were God themselves; sit down 🪑 #loveislove #lgbtqally #ally #proudally
