Elizabeth Smart Instagram – Last week in my posts I had a lot of parents share the concern that their kids aren’t showing any interest in romance (no crushes, not curious about kissing or sex, etc.). So bringing the topic of consent up seems odd. They especially don’t want to put ideas in their kids mind! I get it. It may seem like your kid is light years away from having a crush, but I’m telling you it’s time to lay the foundation down and talk about consent (and frankly even if they aren’t interested they have friends that are, the concepts are not foreign!). One nonsexual way I talk to my kids about consent is using animals. Explaining body boundaries and appropriate touching with the phrases, “tails are not for pulling” and “gentle pats” were repeated ad nauseum. I also talk about animals’ body language to show when cuddles would be appropriate or not. “Look at puppies ears! What are they saying?” Alright other experienced parents, let’s hear your advice. What are nonsexual ways you discuss consent with your kids? — My course Wholehearted consent is on sale in honor of my 20th anniversary of being rescued. Use the promo code 20YEARS to get $49 off. You can grab it at www.wholeheartedconsent.com