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Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - A week off the grid. What did I miss?
Dan Savage Instagram -
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Dan Savage Instagram - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Dan Savage Instagram - They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?
Dan Savage Instagram - Happy birthday to him (left).
Dan Savage Instagram - Happy birthday to him (left).
Dan Savage Instagram - Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.”

Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.”

Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”
Dan Savage Instagram - Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Proof of Life at 
#mal2024
Dan Savage Instagram - From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - American Psycho.
Dan Savage Instagram - The grill master.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - America’s new tourism campaign.
Dan Savage Instagram - Missing Terry.
Dan Savage Instagram - Ring light gets in your eyes.
Dan Savage Instagram - Still surprised by this.
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. 

Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥

1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 

2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging  unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 

3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral.

Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖

#UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Likes : 14773
Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

14.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 9.8K Likes - A week off the grid. What did I miss?

9.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : A week off the grid. What did I miss?
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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8.3K Likes - Some good news.

8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Dan Savage - 8K Likes - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.

8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Likes : 7957
Dan Savage - 8K Likes - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.

8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Likes : 7957
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524
Dan Savage - 6.7K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)

6.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Likes : 6687
Dan Savage - 6.7K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)

6.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Likes : 6687
Dan Savage - 6.4K Likes - They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?

6.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?
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Dan Savage - 5.9K Likes - Happy birthday to him (left).

5.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Happy birthday to him (left).
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Dan Savage - 5.9K Likes - Happy birthday to him (left).

5.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Happy birthday to him (left).
Likes : 5930
Dan Savage - 5.7K Likes - Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.”

Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.”

Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”

5.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.” Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.” Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”
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Dan Savage - 5.3K Likes - Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest

5.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest
Likes : 5314
Dan Savage - 3.5K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)

3.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)
Likes : 3468
Dan Savage - 2.9K Likes - Proof of Life at 
#mal2024

2.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Proof of Life at #mal2024
Likes : 2902
Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)
Likes : 2845
Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767
Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767
Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767
Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… 

…what do YOU think of this new term?

Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! 

Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥

#compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682
Dan Savage - 2.5K Likes - American Psycho.

2.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : American Psycho.
Likes : 2505
Dan Savage - 2.5K Likes - The grill master.

2.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : The grill master.
Likes : 2453
Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094
Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094
Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094
Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094
Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - America’s new tourism campaign.

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : America’s new tourism campaign.
Likes : 2070
Dan Savage - 1.9K Likes - Missing Terry.

1.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Missing Terry.
Likes : 1917
Dan Savage - 1.8K Likes - Ring light gets in your eyes.

1.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Ring light gets in your eyes.
Likes : 1786
Dan Savage - 1.7K Likes - Still surprised by this.

1.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Still surprised by this.
Likes : 1682
Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. 

Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥

1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 

2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging  unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 

3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral.

Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖

#UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
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