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Someone who is obsessed with a person might constantly think about them, check their social media, or daydream about scenarios involving them, even if the person isn’t interested or available.
This often comes from deeper psychological and emotional needs. Here are some common reasons:
🤕 Distraction:
* Obsessing over someone who is emotionally unavailable can serve as a way to avoid dealing with our own unresolved issues or emotional pain. For example, instead of addressing feelings of loneliness or insecurity, we focus all our energy on chasing after someone who doesn’t reciprocate our feelings. This distraction can prevent us from doing the inner work needed for personal growth.
🧠 Excitement:
* The emotional highs and lows that come with being obsessed with someone who is unavailable can create a sense of excitement and drama. Psychologically, this rollercoaster of emotions can be mistaken for intense love or passion, providing a thrill that temporarily fills a void. For instance, the uncertainty of whether they will ever return our feelings can keep us hooked, even though it’s not healthy or fulfilling.
❤️🩹❤️🩹Unconscious desire to heal:
* This obsession can act as a mirror, reflecting back our own fears, insecurities, and patterns. The unavailability of the other person can force us to confront why we’re drawn to relationships where our needs aren’t met.
For example, we might realise that we are repeating a pattern from childhood, where we felt we had to earn love from distant or emotionally unavailable caregivers. This reflection can offer valuable insights into our attachment styles and help us understand what we need to heal
If you feel you are also obsessing over someone and you want to know how to make that shift from being unhealthily attached to being Authentic. DM me with your concern and we can connect 1:1.
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