Laura Lentz Instagram – When it comes to the infidelity conversation, a good rule of thumb for evaluating if you might have a problem is if you can’t share something with your spouse. This doesn’t explicitly have to relate to physical sex with another person, but also pushing boundaries emotionally with another person, or perhaps even a secret porn habit.
The longer the secrets go on, the more disharmony you are actively sowing into your relationship. Quite literally, you are crafting a secret life that the person closest to you has no idea about. Not to mention that when things are in secret, the more likely we are to keep compromising and pushing boundaries we never thought we would.
The thing is, all secrets are eventually exposed at some point in time. You can take an active role in disclosing the secrets, and in the process, mitigate the damage through honesty and vulnerability. The alternative is to let them come out *without* your choosing, and the amount of shock and devastation will be that much greater.
Click the link in our bio for the full podcast episode with Laura Lentz, as we break down her journey through infidelity and navigating the decision to stay or go. now available on YouTube, Spotify and Apple Podcasts. | Posted on 26/Aug/2024 21:35:44
