Rhian Sugden Instagram – Finding Myself! ✨
10 months into motherhood and I barely recognise myself. Like, genuinely…why am I having a meltdown about what to wear to bloody Costco?
Why is this an actual crisis?? I stand in front of my wardrobe, trying on outfit after outfit, and nothing feels right or fits me how it used too. Nothing feels me.
I cancel plans, not because I don’t want to see my friends, but because I hate how I look and feel. It’s not even just about clothes, it’s like I look in the mirror and feel different sometimes.
I find myself getting emotional over the smallest things because deep down, I don’t feel like me at moment. And just to be clear, this isn’t me fishing for compliments, it’s just genuinely how I feel.
Nobody talks about this side of motherhood enough—the identity crisis, the way your confidence just vanishes. The weird grief of your old self, while trying to love this new version of you.
If you’re feeling this too, you’re not crazy, you’re not alone, and we will find ourselves again. Just… maybe not today.
#MumLifeCrisis #WhoEvenAmI #NotFishingJustFeeling #mum #mumlife | Posted on 05/Mar/2025 18:10:59
