Rutvi Bhatt Instagram – Are u someone who wants to talk and solve it right away — when there’s a fight — while he wants sometime off..
A lot of men choose to go silent or push themselves away when there’s a fight 😡 and this is often perceived as a lack of care, love or interest by women cause women function as a differently 🥺
But here is what your man maybe going through when he goes silent or pushes you away:
✨ Men are solution oriented — so when u confront them with something and they don’t have solution to the fight or the problem, they freeze
✨ Conflict makes them feel inadequate — like they’re not doing enough or feel like you’re not loving enough and this triggers a fear of failure 😣
✨ Men are conditioned to suppress emotions— they have been told to expressing emotions is a sign of weakness so when u have an intense fight and emotions bubble up, this vulnerability makes him feel unsafe
✨ Number 4– the most common reason— they need time to process their emotions and feelings so they need some alone time to come out of that state of anger or sadness
✨ lastly, he goes silent because he is worried he might make it worse or say something that will make u cry or trigger you more. So he just chooses silence rather than escalating the fight
🧡 Dear men share and let ur woman know
& GIRLS— share with your man and tell him u understand 🤗
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