Jamie Otis Instagram – I really believe babies feel calm and loved just by being close to their mama.🙏 People always ask how I show the twins they’re EACH loved—and honestly, I just hold them. I don’t think they need solo 1-on-1 dates yet.🤷🏼♀️ I truly believe they feel my love, even side-by-side.💗
It’s not always easy though. As they get bigger, they push and hit to get more of me🤪—so I’m teaching them gentleness and reminding them: love isn’t a competition.
In our house, when *one Hehner wins, we all win.*🙌 We don’t compete with each other. We help each other, we love each other.💯
People laugh and say, “Good luck—boys fight!” Maybe they’re right😅 but I’m not just accepting “boys will be boys.” I want them to grow up knowing their brothers (and big sissy!) are their best friends, not their rivals.
I’ve also never raised more one boy before, so tell me—do your boys fight nonstop? Do you step in or let them work it out?
I’m just trying to nurture love over competition from the start. Because I don’t ever want my kids to feel they have to be better than each other—I want them to be proud of each other & truly be happy for each other’s wins, not jealous.🥹💗
Ok, mom rant over😜 but if you’ve got tips… I’m all ears!👂💕
Also, if you’re reading this far – sorry for the blurry video. I’ve yet to get enough time to set up my camera for a nice clean video so you get my nursery cam video😆 | Posted on 30/Oct/2025 23:33:26
