Lisa Ray Instagram – Before getting married I was worried for what I would be giving up – An avant-garde life? Time To pursue my own, unsentimental passions A bed of my own To avoid an accidental kick in the middle of the night. These are the thoughts the night before my wedding When my necklace came unclasped And the smiles were not for photos But for how good it is to be lost. But in this game of choice I learned Gradually To constellate new ways of femininity To give up petty rebellions (while recalling the sun is also a star) Love is love With or without a ceremony Love is an inflection point Bringing distant points of interest in close range Not only the beloved. But also the beloved.