Anjali Lavania Instagram – Have you fallen in love with your partner’s potential versus their current reality? When you love someone – you want to believe in their potential to be good – to believe that they have good intentions in their heart – but you have to be honest with yourself – about what is actually happening versus what you hope will happen. Ask yourself this: 1, Do you keep trying to change who they are in the present? But the change never happens. 2, Do you keep ignoring the painful truth behind their present actions? In the hope that they will improve their ways – And all you get are apologies and empty promises? 3, Have you considered the fact that this is who they actually are and maybe don’t really want to change. Remember: Changing unhealthy patterns, addictions, or negative habits – has to come from within that person. You cannot enforce them to do something without their intention to truly want to change themselves. GUIDANCE: 1, It’s easy to get blinded by emotions but when you realize that your might be allowing your emotions to cloud your judgement – you need o take a step back. Ask yourself if your best friend was in the same situation – what advice would you give them – then follow that same advice for yourself. 2, See the complete picture based on their actions – not just their words. Don’t deny the truth that the person you love may have intentionally hurt you – by justifying their actions with all the fake promises they’ve given you. 3, Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. Love yourself enough to know when someone is mistreating you or taking you for granted. Click this link to read the full post https://www.theascensionhealer.com/…/heartbreak… To learn more about Ascension Healing or to connect with me- Please check out this link https://www.theascensionhealer.com/about Love, Light & Blessings Anjali Want only healing updates follow @theascensionhealer #theascensionhealer #ascensionhealing #lifecoach #higherself #dailymotivation #lifequotes #centeryourself #heartbroken #brokenheart #depression #betrayal #heartbreakrecovery #breakup #selfhelp