Anjali Lavania Instagram – Communication is a key aspect in making any relationship more authentic and meaningful.
But to have more meaningful conversations – we need to first figure out how to start a conversation as smoothly as possible.
5 Smooth Conversation Starters:
1, Simply introduce yourself and ask them how they know the host of the event.
2, Genuinely compliment them on their attire: When you aren’t sure which adjective to use You can always use the word interesting or unique. E.g: That’s an interesting tie – where did you get it from?
3, Speak about something that you both can see in your immediate environment. E.g: How’s that drink/appetizer? What do you think about this artwork?
This can also be helpful at work – Noticing a photo frame on a colleague’s desk or an interesting screen saver on their laptop – Is a great way to spark conversations about their personal life.
4, Talking about Food or Beverages is the easiest way to get people talking:
A, Can you recommend any unique cocktails/appetizers/desserts here?
B, The food looks so good… I’m not sure what to get! What looks good to you?
C, Ooh this is yummy – Have you tried this?
D, I like exploring new restaurants and cafes – Which ones do you love going to?
E, I’m going to grab a drink, does anyone else want one? This can be a good way to open up further conversations with whoever chooses to join you for a drink.
5, Holiday or Seasonal Specific Conversation Starters:
E.g 1: January: I can’t believe it’s already 2021. How did you celebrate New Year’s Eve?
E.g 2 : May: Ah it’s so hot I can wait to go up to the mountains – Where would you want to go this Summer?
Congratulations! You’ve initiated a conversation but there’s an art to keeping a conversation going.
Tip: Remember most people love talking about themselves.
10 Tips to Keep a Conversation Going:
1, Instead of asking what do you do work-wise … Ask them; “How do you spend most of your time during the day?”
This one is a winner as it allows the other person to share something that they truly feel like talking about.
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