Johnathon Schaech Instagram – My 20s felt like such a mess. Mostly because of a very unsteady and unpredictable relationship with myself. Which was a domino effect for everything else. I didn’t trust. I didn’t believe. I didn’t truly love. The last 10 years though have been…different. With me. With him. With us. Not that it’s always been easy..far from it. But there is a foundation and steadfast BELIEF that I chose to cultivate within myself. And with that, got to see, feel and experience it within him. A knowingness. A trust. A belief. Because when you change the script of your life… the script changes. Not just for you, but for everyone in your life, too. My relationship and marriage became a part of my life I no longer had to smother with co-dependency, fear, anxiety, chaos and control. Instead…I let me evolve, and let him evolve, and let it ALL evolve….while loving myself every step of the way. And above all, I allowed beautiful and pure acceptance into my life. For me, this is true intimacy and love. With myself. With him. With life. And it requires a real honorship and ownership. Love is… L etting O thers V oluntarily E volve Happy Valentines Day mon Ami! @johnschaech