Esther Perel Instagram – Every day I work with couples who have been devastated by infidelity. They are in disbelief, gutted, shattered. Despite how common affairs are, the intensity of reactions that surround the topic of infidelity stands in the way of understanding, repair, and resilience — all elements that are crucial to the vitality of a relationship. Love is messy, infidelity more so. As a friend or family member of someone who has discovered an affair, your role is to be a support system and guide your loved one in getting back their own sense of self-worth, to overcome what very well may be one of the most challenging times of their life. Visit the link in my bio to learn how to best support a friend or family member during this time.