Vijayalakshmi Instagram – When we go out for dinner, when feroz asks me wat I want, i won’t know wat I want. My constant reply would be.. “Anything.” Wat do u want for your bday? I don’t know. Anything. Where do u want to go? Mm…. Therila Wat genre u want to watch? anything is fine. “ I din know wat I want. Reason being, I never asked myself. Never cared to. Mabbe I was scared to make choices. Wat if I get a No. Wat if they laugh on my choices. Wat if I’m being judged for my decisions. Wat if wat if wat if. Until one day.. this beautiful soul I travel with said.. “Vg should like something. She should look inside and find out. No one is going to judge her. Even if someone questions about her decisions, that should never bother her. I’m going to be with u for the rest of your life. Nothing will make me happy than seeing my girl being independent and making her decisions. Now take a min, close your eyes and tell me.. Wat ice cream do u want to have ? I closed my eyes Asked myself.. And said.. “Falooda I would love to have falooda feroz “ And that’s how I got this confidence and freedom to go for wat I want. Taking a belly dance session had been on my wish list for a long time. Finally did it. The way I wanted it. I usually am reluctant to show my belly (especially after child birth and with the bloating moms are blessed with 😐) but there, I din think twice. I wanted to feel like a belly dancer and that’s wat I was on that day. Thanks for teaching me @vaishnavi.tn U r full of grace! Thanks @tattva_thestudio for the session. Loved it 🫶 #gogetwatuwant #onelife #LIVE