Rain Dove Dubilewski Instagram – I wrote this long long caption about all the new birth certificate enforcement bathroom bills being proposed and then it got deleted when I posted somehow. So here I am. Reposting. And as I go to rewrite this thing I’ve written before I realize how redundant this battle really is. How bored I am of myself and this silly struggle that has resulted in serious consequence. Despite clear scientific studies en masse which prove restrooms are over 40% safer when they are all identity inclusive (mostly as a result of the impact of randomization of possible user entrants). Is it that hard? Mixed restrooms with a few private stalls with floor to ceiling doors that have a child changing fold out, are disability accessible, and lit well enough for people to use said mirrors for ritualistic needs such as adjusting hijabs during breaks. The issue isn’t the “gender”- it’s the violence of individuals who should be held more individually accountable. We can do that through clearer and more effective laws, preventive mandatory education about keeping hands to our own diddles, and utilizing modern tech options for maximum safety & response. I mean- it’s fair to be cautious in the restroom. Our butts and niblets ARE exposed. 😂😩
We also need to teach people that people with “f” on their birth certificates can be tall, muscular, short hair, etc. If You are going to call me a “girl” because of my birth certificate, then sweetie darling, this is what a pretty girl looks like. This face. These shoulders. Those brows. That suit. These muscles.
This is my personal experience, I don’t want to speak for You. What has been Your experience with gender inclusive restrooms? Is there any reason You believe we absolutely NEED divided restrooms? Are there additional things You believe we should add to create safer spaces? All voices welcome. No matter how “silly” or controversial You believe Your opinion to be.
Ps: How are You today? All answers welcome none too burdensome. None too joyful. All valid! I’ll respond to as many as possible for the first 24 hours.
#wesanderson #lgbtqia #whatdoyoumean #genderqueer #funnyvideo #storytime thanks @quartermistress for whacking me! | Posted on 25/Apr/2023 23:28:45
