Esther Perel Instagram – How often does the question “How are you?” really lead to a meaningful conversation? And how do we spark conversations that bring us closer together—instead of driving us apart? I’ve been reflecting a lot on what makes a good question—one that goes beyond the usual small talk like “What do you do?” One of my go-to questions at gatherings is, “What’s on your unofficial resume?” It opens the door to unique stories, like my experiences busking and hitchhiking in my twenties, introducing me to diverse people across America — which I delve deeper into in this month’s newsletter. After releasing my card game, “Where Should We Begin: A Game of Stories,” I received letters from people who were using prompts from the game on road trips, creating connections reminiscent of my own youthful travels. One letter, is the one you see above. If you have a story like this, I’d love for you to share it with me — comment below or message me directly. In the meantime, I wanted to share a few more questions with you in case you’d like to try them out this holiday season with loved ones or kind strangers. You can find those in my latest newsletter, linked in my bio. My hope is that, as you gather, whether you feel excitement or trepidation, you can find new stories to share, new questions to ask, and new places to travel together without ever leaving each other’s side. If you’re interested in playing the game this holiday season, there’s still time* to place your US orders on Amazon.com. Use the code “12LASTCHANCE” by midnight ET for an exclusive discount. (*Availability and shipping times vary by location.)