Matthew Hussey Instagram – Here’s the thing: “Playing it cool” and holding back from saying what we want can leave us falling harder and harder for someone who has no intention of investing in a committed relationship. While there’s nothing wrong with initially seeing how things go, by continuing to play it cool, we may inadvertently trap ourselves in a state of limbo. By failing to ask questions (which can help us take stock of where things are headed), our avoidance can actually attract and enable avoiders. I know this stuff can be really hard to get right, because there’s a delicate push and pull in every dynamic. You don’t want to always be the one putting a foot forward, because the right relationship will be an equal exchange of energy. That’s why I’ve created a brand-new live webinar to help you navigate commitment (and avoid major pitfalls). It’s called “First Principles of Getting Commitment” and it’s happening this Tuesday, January 23. I’ll be giving away my biggest free gift EVER at the end of this event, and you can get your free ticket now by commenting COMMIT below or by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com