If someone does something that makes you unsure of them or their intentions, instead of obsessing over whether it’s a red flag or not, use it as an ‘amber light’. An amber light is an invitation to the kind of honest conversation you might normally be afraid to have. And this conversation will either become a green light (keep going), or a red light (get out), depending on how someone responds.
We need to have more challenging conversations in life. That’s how our love life (and every other part of our life) is going to get better.
If you want to watch the full replay of the 90-minute free event this video is taken from before it gets taken down this week, click the link in my bio or go to LoveLifeReplay.com.
The reactions to this have been huge. Don’t miss it!
New podcast is out, and it’s something a little different today! This episode is with my dear friend Cassandra Sethi @nextlevelwardrobe. Cassandra is a dear friend, and she dressed me and @theaudreyhussey for our wedding. We loved it and were so happy with the result that I decided we had to do a podcast with her to share what we learned.
It’s incredible how much working on my style with her has impacted the way I feel on a daily basis. This isn’t about material things, it’s about the amount of pride I’ve taken in just feeling my best. For the last 15 years I’ve worked with people who I know could feel a lot better, not just in their love lives, but their lives in general, if they put just 10-20% more focus on how to feel confident externally. This episode is full of practical advice from Cassandra on the simple ways you can do this that won’t break the bank. We talk about how to ‘purge’ things from your wardrobe to clear your mind and feel more organized, as well as where to start when upgrading your style.
Check it out on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you like to listen to podcasts by searching Love Life with Matthew Hussey (or, watch the full episode now on my YouTube channel)
New podcast is out, and it’s something a little different today! This episode is with my dear friend Cassandra Sethi @nextlevelwardrobe. Cassandra is a dear friend, and she dressed me and @theaudreyhussey for our wedding. We loved it and were so happy with the result that I decided we had to do a podcast with her to share what we learned.
It’s incredible how much working on my style with her has impacted the way I feel on a daily basis. This isn’t about material things, it’s about the amount of pride I’ve taken in just feeling my best. For the last 15 years I’ve worked with people who I know could feel a lot better, not just in their love lives, but their lives in general, if they put just 10-20% more focus on how to feel confident externally. This episode is full of practical advice from Cassandra on the simple ways you can do this that won’t break the bank. We talk about how to ‘purge’ things from your wardrobe to clear your mind and feel more organized, as well as where to start when upgrading your style.
Check it out on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you like to listen to podcasts by searching Love Life with Matthew Hussey (or, watch the full episode now on my YouTube channel)
New podcast is out, and it’s something a little different today! This episode is with my dear friend Cassandra Sethi @nextlevelwardrobe. Cassandra is a dear friend, and she dressed me and @theaudreyhussey for our wedding. We loved it and were so happy with the result that I decided we had to do a podcast with her to share what we learned.
It’s incredible how much working on my style with her has impacted the way I feel on a daily basis. This isn’t about material things, it’s about the amount of pride I’ve taken in just feeling my best. For the last 15 years I’ve worked with people who I know could feel a lot better, not just in their love lives, but their lives in general, if they put just 10-20% more focus on how to feel confident externally. This episode is full of practical advice from Cassandra on the simple ways you can do this that won’t break the bank. We talk about how to ‘purge’ things from your wardrobe to clear your mind and feel more organized, as well as where to start when upgrading your style.
Check it out on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you like to listen to podcasts by searching Love Life with Matthew Hussey (or, watch the full episode now on my YouTube channel)
Remember: Relationships need to start with both attraction AND effort.
If you only have attraction, but they’re not making the effort, it’s like trying to accelerate a car while someone has their foot on the brake.
If this subject speaks to where you are right now in your life, I invite you to join me on my live event, “The First Principles of Getting Commitment,” for free by going to LoveLifeTraining.com ❤️
I’m sure you’ve heard the story of Goldilocks, and how she broke into the home of 3 bears and brazenly sampled their porridge, chairs, and beds . . . settling on the ones that weren’t too hot or cold, or too big or small (and showing complete disregard for personal property and boundaries in the process!)
This is basically the modern dating version of Goldilocks. . . you know, when someone’s not ready to commit, but they won’t let go of you either. Their “sweet spot” is you giving them your time, energy, and even intimacy . . . without them having to promise you anything.
Ultimately, there’s nothing generous or romantic about them not being able to let you go. It’s all about THEIR comfort—providing you with hope that never materializes into something real.
If you’re tired of the Goldilocks game and want to find a real relationship in 2024, you can’t miss my FREE commitment event happening this Tuesday, January 23. (And at the end of this event, I’ll be sharing one of my biggest free gifts ever!) You can secure your ticket now by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
Chemistry is seductive. It’s what makes us want to be around someone: their touch, the way they make us laugh, their attractive charisma, the way we feel relaxed in each other’s company.
But character is equally important. Character will define someone’s capacity for kindness, their loyalty, their values, and how willing they are to keep growing with us and stand by us in difficult times.
When we value character and chemistry equally, we are so much better equipped to confidently choose the right person who will make us happy long-term, instead of chasing short-term excitement at the cost of our long-term peace.
🚨If you haven’t already, don’t forget to sign up to my free event taking place TODAY at 11am PT / 2pm ET / 7pm UK all about commitment and how to get it. I am so excited to share what I’ve been working on with you 🙌 I’m really proud of this one! 🚨
To sign up go to LoveLifeTraininng.com or comment below with the word COMMIT and I’ll send you the info directly.
See you in a few hours!
It’s fine to want to find someone. But focus daily on falling deeper in love with the life already going on around you.
And if you feel alone, or like there’s something wrong with you because you haven’t found anybody, remember that today, all over the world, there are incredible people who are still single, or whose relationship just ended, and find themselves in the exact same position as you. If you are still looking, you are in wonderful company.
Tell me your answer in the comments ♥️
Making sure we have all of these before getting deeply emotionally invested with someone is so important.
When we like someone it’s common to only focus on one of these things, and to make that the reason we should be with someone, i.e. “we have a unique connection” or “I am so attracted to this person”.
But this reasoning becomes excuse for allowing someone to treat us poorly or not give us what we really want because we are too afraid of losing them. It’s imperative we zoom out and make sure the foundations of a relationship are really there, to ensure we aren’t lost in infatuation, and that we’re not simply in love with the idea of the relationship.
Getting real investment, and ultimately, real commitment from someone can feel so elusive when dating, but it is possible. I have an event coming up on Tuesday, January 23rd which is all about commitment and how to get it. 10k+ have already signed up. You can join them and secure your place on the event for FREE by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
Making sure we have all of these before getting deeply emotionally invested with someone is so important.
When we like someone it’s common to only focus on one of these things, and to make that the reason we should be with someone, i.e. “we have a unique connection” or “I am so attracted to this person”.
But this reasoning becomes excuse for allowing someone to treat us poorly or not give us what we really want because we are too afraid of losing them. It’s imperative we zoom out and make sure the foundations of a relationship are really there, to ensure we aren’t lost in infatuation, and that we’re not simply in love with the idea of the relationship.
Getting real investment, and ultimately, real commitment from someone can feel so elusive when dating, but it is possible. I have an event coming up on Tuesday, January 23rd which is all about commitment and how to get it. 10k+ have already signed up. You can join them and secure your place on the event for FREE by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
Making sure we have all of these before getting deeply emotionally invested with someone is so important.
When we like someone it’s common to only focus on one of these things, and to make that the reason we should be with someone, i.e. “we have a unique connection” or “I am so attracted to this person”.
But this reasoning becomes excuse for allowing someone to treat us poorly or not give us what we really want because we are too afraid of losing them. It’s imperative we zoom out and make sure the foundations of a relationship are really there, to ensure we aren’t lost in infatuation, and that we’re not simply in love with the idea of the relationship.
Getting real investment, and ultimately, real commitment from someone can feel so elusive when dating, but it is possible. I have an event coming up on Tuesday, January 23rd which is all about commitment and how to get it. 10k+ have already signed up. You can join them and secure your place on the event for FREE by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
Making sure we have all of these before getting deeply emotionally invested with someone is so important.
When we like someone it’s common to only focus on one of these things, and to make that the reason we should be with someone, i.e. “we have a unique connection” or “I am so attracted to this person”.
But this reasoning becomes excuse for allowing someone to treat us poorly or not give us what we really want because we are too afraid of losing them. It’s imperative we zoom out and make sure the foundations of a relationship are really there, to ensure we aren’t lost in infatuation, and that we’re not simply in love with the idea of the relationship.
Getting real investment, and ultimately, real commitment from someone can feel so elusive when dating, but it is possible. I have an event coming up on Tuesday, January 23rd which is all about commitment and how to get it. 10k+ have already signed up. You can join them and secure your place on the event for FREE by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
Making sure we have all of these before getting deeply emotionally invested with someone is so important.
When we like someone it’s common to only focus on one of these things, and to make that the reason we should be with someone, i.e. “we have a unique connection” or “I am so attracted to this person”.
But this reasoning becomes excuse for allowing someone to treat us poorly or not give us what we really want because we are too afraid of losing them. It’s imperative we zoom out and make sure the foundations of a relationship are really there, to ensure we aren’t lost in infatuation, and that we’re not simply in love with the idea of the relationship.
Getting real investment, and ultimately, real commitment from someone can feel so elusive when dating, but it is possible. I have an event coming up on Tuesday, January 23rd which is all about commitment and how to get it. 10k+ have already signed up. You can join them and secure your place on the event for FREE by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com.
When we are seeing someone in the early stages, a common question we ask ourselves is: “Do they like me?” We think: “If they like me, things will develop and evolve into a relationship, right?”
I’d like to challenge this instinct today. I believe “Do they like me?” is not the right question to be asking ourselves . . . it can even be a dangerous source of comfort that blinds us to someone’s lack of intention. That’s because someone liking us does not immediately translate into a real investment or a desire to progress the relationship to the next stage.
Real progress must be measured in a different way.
If you’re looking to get clarity on whether a situation is worth pursuing, or want real commitment from someone, I would like to invite you to join my free event on Tuesday, January 23, called, “The First Principles of Getting Commitment.” You can claim your spot at LoveLifeTraining.com ❤️
Are you sick of coming across people like the ones I’m talking about in this video? Yesterday I held a 90 minute FREE event for anyone looking for a committed, lasting relationship in today’s world. I believe the most beautiful thing anyone can have in their love lives is someone to BUILD with—someone who looks at you and says: “We’re in this together . . . it’s you and me.” Do you want that for yourself? Are you tired of a world that seems filled with casual hookups and people who never never seem to be ‘ready’. Well you’re not alone. Over 6000 people watched live yesterday, and thousands more are watching the replay right now as I write this.
You can still watch the replay on YouTube by hitting the link in my bio, or going to LoveLifeReplay.com.
P.S. I also did something BIG half way through the event for everyone who was there. I told people they would be insanely grateful they came because of this thing, and they were! (If you were there you know). If you weren’t there for it, it’s not too late. We are taking the replay off of YouTube in the next couple of days, so make a date with yourself tonight, or right now, to watch it before it disappears.
One of the reasons we lose ourselves in early dating, invest too much, and become too obsessed, is because we’ve stopped seeing someone as a person, and started seeing them as an angel. Watch this clip through, and tell me if you’ve ever been guilty of this in the comments.
Making someone too important early is one of the ways we sabotage ourselves when we are looking for commitment. If a loving, committed relationship with someone you can build with is something you want, there are some key realizations that will change the game for you.
I put them all in a 90 minute free event I did this week. Over 30k people have now watched the event, and the feedback has been incredible. The replay is coming down this week, so don’t miss your last chance to see it. Either click the link in my bio or go to
LoveLifeReplay.com to watch.
I told people at the beginning of this event: “My goal is for you to get to the end of this event and be SHOCKED that it was free”. We literally had hundreds of messages from people afterwards telling us exactly that, and we’re still getting them. Go see for yourself while it’s still there!
And let me know what you think!
In today’s new video, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. You can watch the FULL video on my Youtube channel now.
Let me know in the comments what you think, I look forward to them.
Here’s the thing: “Playing it cool” and holding back from saying what we want can leave us falling harder and harder for someone who has no intention of investing in a committed relationship.
While there’s nothing wrong with initially seeing how things go, by continuing to play it cool, we may inadvertently trap ourselves in a state of limbo. By failing to ask questions (which can help us take stock of where things are headed), our avoidance can actually attract and enable avoiders.
I know this stuff can be really hard to get right, because there’s a delicate push and pull in every dynamic. You don’t want to always be the one putting a foot forward, because the right relationship will be an equal exchange of energy.
That’s why I’ve created a brand-new live webinar to help you navigate commitment (and avoid major pitfalls). It’s called “First Principles of Getting Commitment” and it’s happening this Tuesday, January 23. I’ll be giving away my biggest free gift EVER at the end of this event, and you can get your free ticket now by commenting COMMIT below or by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com
In today’s new video, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want.
If you want to watch the full video, head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog or my YouTube channel!
Happy Sunday everybody!
I wanted to reach out today and get your input on my event I am hosting on Tuesday.
As per your request, the subject of this training is commitment (and how to get it). and in order to make sure I answer all your questions on this subject I wanted to ask two things from you…
✍🏼 drop a comment below with a question you’d like me to cover on the event
👍 upvote your favourite question posted by someone else so I can see which ones are most popular!
And that’s it! I really appreciate your input with this to make it the best possible training it can be.
By the way, for anyone wondering how to sign up, this event is totally free, and you can get all the information you need at lovelifetraining.com – you can also get a direct sign up link by dropping the word COMMIT below!
Have a peaceful Sunday x
Have you ever felt those “first date nerves”?
It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again.
So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you? Find out by watching this week’s brand new video on my Youtube channel, or by heading over to matthewhussey.com/blog.
Hey friends! Jumping on live to share a quick concept for your love life.. let me know in the comments if you can relate
By the way, if you haven’t watched the replay of my live commitment event yet, don’t wait, because it’s only lasting until midnight PT tonight. After that, it’s gone (along with the surprise that I announced during the event)
To catch the replay before it’s gone, head over to LoveLifeReplay.com (or tap the link in my bio)
If you missed my LIVE commitment event yesterday, there’s still time to catch the replay. But, it’s not here for long, so head over to LoveLifeReplay.com to watch now (and remember to watch to the end for a very exciting announcement you won’t want to miss)
