Home Actress Lynn Toler HD Instagram Photos and Wallpapers February 2024 Lynn Toler Instagram - I have always considered myself an accidental overachiever. I have goals but I usually miss that mark and in recovery find an option that’s better than the one I was aiming for. The trick is when you fall, look around where you are to see things from that perspective. You might humble up on an opportunity that wasn’t visible while standing. Or may all you get is a good story. I don’t know. Dude here was thinking though. He made the best out of a bad situation … looked good doing it too. Happy Friday! Shoutout @used_03_civic

Lynn Toler Instagram – I have always considered myself an accidental overachiever. I have goals but I usually miss that mark and in recovery find an option that’s better than the one I was aiming for. The trick is when you fall, look around where you are to see things from that perspective. You might humble up on an opportunity that wasn’t visible while standing. Or may all you get is a good story. I don’t know. Dude here was thinking though. He made the best out of a bad situation … looked good doing it too. Happy Friday! Shoutout @used_03_civic

Lynn Toler Instagram - I have always considered myself an accidental overachiever. I have goals but I usually miss that mark and in recovery find an option that’s better than the one I was aiming for. The trick is when you fall, look around where you are to see things from that perspective. You might humble up on an opportunity that wasn’t visible while standing. Or may all you get is a good story. I don’t know. Dude here was thinking though. He made the best out of a bad situation … looked good doing it too. Happy Friday! Shoutout @used_03_civic

Lynn Toler Instagram – I have always considered myself an accidental overachiever. I have goals but I usually miss that mark and in recovery find an option that’s better than the one I was aiming for.

The trick is when you fall, look around where you are to see things from that perspective. You might humble up on an opportunity that wasn’t visible while standing.

Or may all you get is a good story. I don’t know.

Dude here was thinking though. He made the best out of a bad situation … looked good doing it too.

Happy Friday!

Shoutout @used_03_civic | Posted on 02/Feb/2024 21:29:14

Lynn Toler Instagram – You know how I like to do all the stuff I really don’t want to do first thing in the morning. Often people return my emails with phrases like what were you doing up at 4:00 a.m.?

Anyhow, yesterday the minute the coroner’s office opened, I talked to Irma about autopsy photos. 

#Widowhood is a tough hood. You get your equilibrium for a moment and then get hit by a whole new verse of He’s Not Here sung in so many different keys of sorrow it’s a cacophony and not a chorus.

I hesitated to mention the coroner thing (who wants to hear about that) but I’m just out here, you know? Grabbing at things so I won’t drown. 

Anyway I spent the rest of the day irritated by every single little thing I came across. Something stupid happened at the bank. #Widow-related, mind you, but I held it together. 

Then there was the post office issue. I was vibrating by then but I got through it without acting up.

But by 2:00 p.m. I was fresh out of all #emotional reserves. So I stayed home.

What I did not do, however, was turn my phone off. Not only that, I saw his name on the caller ID. I should have just let it go to voicemail. But oh no! 

The fact that he had it coming is irrelevant. I should have been above it anyway. I hate it when I let others set my #mood. 

I can’t even tell you about the second meltdown. I was home. In bed. (5:00 p.m. – don’t judge, discretion is the better part of valor)  I called myself securing the world by absenting myself from it. I had all my fences up.  But they found me after I had clocked out. I was totally emotionally unprepared for human interaction so I showed up all wrong. 

It’s a new day though. 

Relevant #Tolerism

The Up Rule:

When you mess up.
Fess up.
Back up,
Then clean up.

Got my mop and I’m ready to go.

#emotionalintellingence #widow working her way out of the weeds.
Lynn Toler Instagram – Is often unplanned and unpretty (I know that’s not a word).

Every day funny is the best funny that there is. 

Shoutout @mandyhunterhealing

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