Lynn Toler Instagram – I was always a very jumpy chick. If I had a dime for every time I jumped and screamed when Eric walked in a room I’d own The Maldives. He’d get so annoyed. “I live here.” He’d say. My response? I know but I did not expect to see you in this spot at this moment, hence the startle response. After 30 some years you’d think I’d get used to it. But nooooo … Here’s the thing, You can either get annoyed or amused by it, even as you choose not to accede to it. I fight my #fears. I do things to make myself calmer. Everyday. And I’m better than I was … But at my core, I’m all rabbit with reclusive tendencies. I like who I am but I am never satisfied with her. She can do better and when she does she’ll make my life better. That’s the key. #Motivation: the art of being dissatisfied without being demoralized. You can’t just repeat the same sentence over and over again for 150 pages and write a good book. Something’s gotta happen. Things must change. Don’t be a pamphlet. Be a multi-volume series. In the interim, have a good day. Shoutout @justlaughfolder