Matthew Hussey Instagram – Relationships can’t be built on hope. Hope that a person will be more loyal, more committed, or more capable of a healthy relationship some day in the future. We always have to ask ourselves, “Would this person be able to fulfill my needs if they stayed exactly as they are today?”. Our relationships define an enormous amount of our happiness, so it pays to know what we are choosing BEFORE we commit to giving someone a place of priority in our lives.