Matthew Hussey Instagram – Long-term attraction has several elements to it. One of the most foundational is CHEMISTRY. That might come from flirting, the way you look, making each other laugh, or just the indescribable qualities that make you physically turned on by someone. But that’s not enough. We also need CONNECTION. This requires us to actually show ourselves to someone and in turn be able to see them as they truly are. It also means we might have to get comfortable with the uncomfortable and open up in ways we aren’t used to.