Dr. Contessa Metcalfe Instagram – Some people will re-victimize you when you share what’s happening in your relationship (especially if the man holds a certain “status” in the community)- so we understand why people endure years of abuse and oftentimes don’t share the trauma in their relationships with friends/family. Money and status allow some people to prey on those they hold power over. I get such gratification when the predators are forced to pay for what they have done. Nope, don’t know all the details, but what I know is sharing your story, especially one filled with hurt, shame and trauma -takes courage. To all of you still enduring trauma in your relationships – my prayers are with you today 🙏🏾 #988 call 24/7 if you are in crisis If you or someone you know is the victim of sexual violence, you can find support using RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline. Call (800) 656-HOPE or visit online.rainn.org to speak with a trained support specialist.