Esther Perel Instagram – Many first dates these days are like a job interview. It’s people asking each other common questions. It’s lifeless. It doesn’t elicit curiosity. I sat down with @insiderbusiness to share my tips on how to make a first date more fun. A date that gathers data is deadly. A date that evokes curiosity, discovery, serendipity, happenstance — that becomes interesting. Visit the link in my bio for 5 steps to transform your next first date.