Lynn Toler Instagram – Can I make a suggestion? Beware the #universilization of your own experiences. I know that just because I’ve experienced something deeply ,intimately and over time, doesn’t mean I’m an expert on the underlying event as it occurs to others. People are different. Cultures are different. Upbringings are all over the place. It’s like mountain climbing. Just like you should be slow to judge others stuck on a mountain you haven’t been required to climb, you should also remember that even if you’ve already climbed a mountain someone else is on, the ascent is different for everyone depending on their size, which mountain face they chose, their physical ability, and the equipment and guides that they use. You guys have a great day. Even if it’s a tough one, try to slip some jot in there somewhere. , went outside, with headphones and a #WhitneyHouston Playlist, and put on a show. Out of respect for the neighbors, I just lip sync and dance. My singing skills are right there with my cooking acumen. 🤣 #widow #betterthanyesterday